26 Lessons I’ve Learned in 26 Years
allyourfault
January 07, 2009
Life in General
Tags: 26 lessons, lessons learned, life lessons, life tips
It is the beginning of a new year when everyone is taking some time to reflect on life. In my short time here, I have come to learn a few lessons in my life. So here is a list, one lesson for each year of my life. I hope that some ring true for you too.
- When it comes to friends, go for quality over quantity.
- Save money when you can, especially when you are younger.
- Don’t take your family for granted - they are you biggest fans and supporters.
- Venture out of your comfort zone in work and in relationships.
- Failure isn’t really failure - it is a learning experience. Grow from it.
- LAUGH - as much as you possibly can.
- Money matters, but not as much as what will make you happy.
- With work, don’t think about titles, think about the impact you make and strive to make a bigger impact.
- If you want to be happy, be thoughtful and considerate of others.
- Ideas formed while heavily intoxicated are usually the worst ideas sober.
- Be genuine and honest and surround yourself with people who do the same.
- When things don’t work out the way you want them to, it is not the end of the world. Give it time.
- Speak up and communicate what you need, don’t expect others to just know.
- A cold beer, sun, and music can cure almost anything.
- It’s a good idea to make plans so long as you understand nothing ever goes 100% according to plan.
- It doesn’t matter what everyone else is doing, do what makes you happy.
- Smile, because you never know when you will make someone’s day.
- You are always going to want something more, but don’t forget to be happy with what you have.
- You can’t change anyone, unless they want to change themselves.
- Spend as much time with the people you love, you never know when you may lose your chance to do so.
- The simple things in life are the sometimes the most enjoyable and what make you the most happy.
- Be who you are not who others want you to be.
- Risks are a good thing. Take them even if they don’t benefit you in the end.
- Don’t be afraid of challenges, embrace them and you will wind up stronger than before.
- You can gauge your friends by the extent of their judgement (or lack there of) of what you look like in the morning with no makeup.
- Everyone is a nerd at heart or goofy in their own way.
What would you add?





mike said:
Jan 07, 09 at 8:01 pmgood stuff and wise things to consider…nice work!
Erin said:
Jan 09, 09 at 1:30 pmJust think….In three more years you can be as wise as I am now…
allyourfault said:
Jan 09, 09 at 3:26 pmIt has been a pretty interesting three years for you, so yeah I will give you that. Would you add anymore?
Danielsmonde said:
Jan 26, 09 at 3:55 pmGood stuff. Rofl at @Erin